“Yoga is, in essence, nothing but the method and the process by which you grow to the unattainable and realize permanently the Eternal by and through what seems to be fugitive. In other words, there is a way of inducing the incredible, the elusive Unattainable – the Divine Light and Love and Truth – to accept out hospitality, to come and stay as our guests. Yoga shows you the way, You love a woman, a friend, an idol – but though the first taste of love sends you into raptures, you find these petering out, leaving you only an aftermath of drabness, of disillusionment. Why does this happen again and again? Because the person you love is not divinized. You grasp at fire but hug smoke and ashes. Your friend betrays selfishness, your beloved possessiveness, your idol feet of clay. Why? Because in them the Divine is assorted with the human. It is to reach to and realize permanently the essence of divinity in love and affection and like that we are here. You must claim the fire but reject the ashes, win the light but stave off the heat, welcome affection but cast away selfishness, invite joy but shut out pain and boredom. To sum up, to extract pure gold purged of the dross that clings to it obstinately must be your one aspiration, your one sadhana.”
– Dilip Kumar Roy’s reconstruction of a conversation with the Mother. Excerpted from Sri Aurobindo Came to Me.